Tuesday, August 10, 2010

How to get over your cheating spouse and move-on with your life?

I have done everything,from picking up hobbies to dating different women to partying,but after few days i somehow end up at my ex's door and ofcourse see her romantically engaged with the new guy,what do i do? Are there any meds or anything i could take that might help?How to get over your cheating spouse and move-on with your life?
My husband was in your shoes until he met me.


Some time you will know in your gut that you have had enough...


I know booty calls, etc, are a temptation, but if you want the whole package you will eventually tire of her. You will not look back after that point.How to get over your cheating spouse and move-on with your life?
why do you wanna take drugs to get rid of feelings...???...i will never understand that. its gonna be hard because you obviously loved her. it wont be easy at all but eventually the pain will ease up. dont step out of reality by taking a drug....the pain will be 10 times worse when you touch down from that high. MAN UP!! deal with it, life, love and loss makes you stronger in the long run.
Quit going over to her house. Are you looking in her windows? Dude this is not normal.
The first thing you need to do is to move far away so you can't show up at the ex's door. You have got to get it together and keep away from her. It is over. Tell yourself this again and again. You are NOT going to get back with her. Accept the truth and NEVER go to her house again. NEVER call her again.





Try going to a doctor and explaining the way you feel. You may need a mild antidepressant to get through this period in your life. You may need to get some counseling to help. What you have done so far is the best route, but you have to focus on the new hobby and not think about the ex while you are doing the hobby. You cannot compare the woman you are dating to your ex.





Let the past go. It is yesterday's news, and tomorrow is coming soon. Focus on the future. DO NOT CONTACT THE EX AGAIN!!
Speaking from experience time and lots of it. Resist going to her please....stop doing that to yourself.


Its been a year and it still hurts..................
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Work on your self esteem...perhaps counseling...you must feel pretty bad about you, to think you're not worth more than to be with someone who would betray you and cheat on you.





Think about it...why would you want to be with a cheater? Do you not think you're worth more than that?





You've got to understand she doesn't want to be with you...and isn't worth your time if she wasn't adult enough to discuss it with you before sharing her body with someone else.





Close the door and move on...there's nothing here worth pining over.
You might want to try a therapy group for divorced people. I would start with not going anyway near her. You need to stay away from her. Pretend she died.
move out of town a couple of hours away so you wont show up at her door
A bullet and a shovel. j/k

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