Is there anything wrong with finding out who a person is first in dating before you show your real selft?

and when you decide to show yourself in the relationship it's too late...well this went on for 8 yrs, well that's fine and dandy but how are you suppose to move on with your life......(this is part 2 to my other question about being a mistress....please read it first and then answer thins one) please I love you thanksIs there anything wrong with finding out who a person is first in dating before you show your real selft?
Before going to the answer.... three points


1. Most of the times, if we take steps to show ourself to some one, we can not construct situations in the way we thought. The reality comes out when we do something with out bothering about what others think about it.


2. When you try to show about yourself by situations, it may not reach in the same way we thought. It reflects in the personality of the receiver and gets convert to understanding.


3. To actually understand one, even a life time may not be sufficient - most of the times.





Now, answer:


Better let your inner nature choose your pair/partner/who-ever. How? When chances comes to you, have some basic minimum criteria and validate. Mingle a bit for better understaning. When you find they are the best, you can start sharing your personal thoughts with him.Is there anything wrong with finding out who a person is first in dating before you show your real selft?
All your questions stem from the same problem..YOU! There is something you are doing or not doing that made him turn elsewhere. You only need to be a complete woman and you won't have this problem ever again. That means everything a man could want. Simple! Who would leave a woman that is everything to a man? Only someone not worthy of her.
Nope, accurate information and knowledge can only help you in the long run, no matter what it's for.