Do you feel your only truly connected to ONE person in your love life..?

I feel like you can only be truly in love with one person and no matter how hard you try, you can't move on whilst they're still in your life.





My man left me in February and although we've had so many problems and we've fought and argued til we've pulled each others souls apart, but nothing seems to fill the emptiness I feel without his touch.





I feel like only he alone can make me feel secure and loved; I cudn't imagine someone else touching me or kissing my lips..Will this feeling pass or am I always going to love someone who isn't in love with me back.





He's not misleading, he's told me he's not in love with me anymore, yet he's not seeing other people, I'm the only person he sleeps with and kisses but he can't commit to me.





I feel alone most nights and I feel like I want to kind of move on but without full closure, my heart won't let me.





Please help me, I'm dying inside.


xDo you feel your only truly connected to ONE person in your love life..?
Im sorry that you had to feel the cold heart in a rainy day. I don't believe that you are truly connected to one person in your love life. This just tells you. that this man, this guy, wasn't the right man for you. A greek philiospher said that we start life as a half cicle. our jobs as these halves is to find our matching part so you could be united with the perfect soulmate or person. This man just wasn't it, he couldn't mold into your life. Just take a deep breath hold on to what you think is love and let him go. you know that expression, ';there is always still fishsy out at sea.'; so go find him. stay happy... that guy...just totally missed the opurtunity to be with a great girl. Dont feel bad....just go out there and find your missing half!


:]]]Do you feel your only truly connected to ONE person in your love life..?
I think, like you, that we can only be in true love with one person at a time. Other people feel different though. I understand your need for closure. Im the same way. Without all info and answers its very difficult to move on. I think you should try to move on and the pain will definitely pass with time. Good luck
you only have one love as everyone but as you get older you learn by your mastakes and the next is even better than the first and its true.and special if not keep trying,theres the right one out 4 you promice
oh u poor girl, i cant help but time will if u let it.


sending healing vibes ur way %26amp; prayers that the pain u feel passes by soon
You are being used.


Drop him.
re: Do you feel your only truly connected to ONE person in your love life..?


%26gt;%26gt;%26gt; By 'connected' do you mean that you both KNOW HOW to make a good relationship and are doing it - or do you mean CODEPENDENT?





I feel like you can only be truly in love with one person and no matter how hard you try, you can't move on whilst they're still in your life.


%26gt;%26gt; You are not writing about 'love' here........you are speaking of CODEPENDENCY - an emotional illness (look it up).





My man left me in February and although we've had so many problems and we've fought and argued til we've pulled each others souls apart, but nothing seems to fill the emptiness I feel without his touch.


%26gt;%26gt;%26gt; Yep, you are a victim of CODEPENDENCY - an unhealthy condition but cureable!





I feel like only he alone can make me feel secure and loved; I cudn't imagine someone else touching me or kissing my lips..Will this feeling pass or am I always going to love someone who isn't in love with me back.


%26gt;%26gt;%26gt; WOW! love someone who doesn't love you back - now, that's perfect description of the Codependent affliction!





He's not misleading, he's told me he's not in love with me anymore, yet he's not seeing other people, I'm the only person he sleeps with and kisses but he can't commit to me.


%26gt;%26gt; Codependents can neither commit nor do what's right even if they do commit!





I feel alone most nights and I feel like I want to kind of move on but without full closure, my heart won't let me.


%26gt;%26gt; Codependents can not move on or be at peace no matter what!





Please help me, I'm dying inside.


%26gt;%26gt; Get to work fixing your Codependent, bad self esteem, shame based condition!





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The only way you even have a chance of moving on, is by getting him completely out of your life. You'll never even start to get over him as long as you've got that glimmer of hope you are getting by having him there, even though you know he doesn't love you. I know it doesn't seem like it right now, but your heart will mend, and you can and will fall in love with someone else....and you'll wonder why you ever thought you couldn't have it again.
oh honey i feel for you! I think you have become very attached to this one guy but ask yourself why you had fights?





Would you say that the arguments resolved around his behaviour or yours? Can you think of any faults of your actions that he brought up that you now think was at the time out of order?





And most importantly do you trust him? It sounds like you split up over things that you are now thinking you could have changed but you cant keep lookin back.





What I suggest you do is use the problems you had as a template on how not to behave in the next relationship (because you sound passionate and people like yourself will probably find love again)





Did you date him for a long time (the longer the greater the attachment). Just be yourself , get out with girl frineds and enjoy life, once he realises you dont need him he will probably regret splitting with you.