How to start your life over?

My boyfriend was planning to marry another woman behind my back. They got married and I found out from my best friend. We talked after his wedding and I really went off on him. He said that we should still be friends. Was I wrong for telling him off and asked him never to call me again. I was really hurt. How do you get pass this type of hurt to move on with life?How to start your life over?
I think that is absolutely disgraceful of your boyfriend. Firstly, that he blatantly lied and cheated and secondly, that he didn't have the decency or courage to even tell you that he was getting married. In my opinion you have every right to be angry with him, because he treated you terribly. Finding out from his best friend would make you feel even more hurt because other people knew before you.





I understand that it is incredibly difficult to move on from something like this and it will take time- it won't just go within a week. As for being friends with him, that is completely your choice. It may be for the best that he stays out of your life for a while so that you can get on with yours, without having him as a constant reminder of your past with him.


Keep remembering that you deserve a lot better than him. Although it may be difficult, feel glad that you aren't spending the rest of your life with him and you have the opportunity to go out and find someone who will love and respect you.


Keep yourself busy. I am sure that at a moment like this, your friends will be there for you. Plan your weeks out in advance so that you have a schedule to keep to, rather than sitting thinking about him.





Time is a great healer and you just need plenty of it. The pain will dull over time, but help yourself by keeping your life moving. You will get there in the end.How to start your life over?
It makes sense that you would never want to talk to him again. Trust and respect are the basis of any relationship. Obviously, he has broken your trust by him going behind your back and not only having a relationship but marrying this woman. As for respect, it sounds like he had none for you. If he did, he would have respected your feelings and your life enough to let you go when he wasn't interested in you, and to tell you he was marrying someone else.





The only way to move on is to recongize him for the loser he is and kick him out of your life.
go somewhere on vacation.. you could relax and meet new people


remember... there are always a lot of guys out there


try keeping your mind busy