How do you get rid of someone in your life that you have had a past relationship with?

About 7 years ago I started a relationship with an amazing person that lived 2000 miles away. Well due to tragic events we lost contact. And for the past 7 years we have found each other and lost each other. Well this time I am in a bad realationship and he is married and wants to be friends and refuses to stop talking to me even though I have asked him to stop. He tells me he doesnt want to loose me again. Unfortunatly I have never lost my feelings for him so this makes things difficult. I am very confused and dont know what to do. I want him out of my life so I can move on but find it hard not to talk to him.How do you get rid of someone in your life that you have had a past relationship with?
Get away! Stop all contact! Lose each other again! If it's something that's meant to be, no matter how cliche this sounds, than you two will find each other again and hopefully in better circumstances. You've been lost and found plenty of times, what's one more? Hope this helps.How do you get rid of someone in your life that you have had a past relationship with?
If you truly want to stop talking to him then you're going to have to sever all ties. That means changing your email address/phone number and not ';slipping'; to let him know that you've changed your information. Sounds to me like you may just need to go ';cold turkey'; with him and hope that eventually your feelings will fade.





Good luck.
Restraining Order.
You need to prioritize...sure you might still have feelings for him but do you want to sacrifice what you've built up for what could have been? Simply do not answer any of his phone calls... just don't pick up...easy...and letters you get from him...shred...any emails delete....
You just have too....Agree to keep in touch if either of you move or change your numbers but tell him that for now, you are in a relationship and out of respect for you b/f, you cannot have contact with him right now. If he is a sensible person, he will be understanding.
Just remember he has a wife at home, and whatever he will do while he's with her, he will do when he's with you.
stop answering phone calls emails etc.......act like he doesnt exist.........or hook him up with my ex fiancee that i just broke up with ha
I had to vanish (move change numbers, jobs and friends)
Try not answering the phone...
don't take his calls. he will go away. but you want tot ake his calls.
If you too love each other why don't you find a way to be in a relationship together even if it meant moving. If you really do not want to talk to him anymore why not change your number
if you really want him gone then change you #. and if that doesn't work kindly explane the situation. tell him what you've told us. But before you let him go make sure you really want him gone. Basically Do you really love him???????
Don't answer his calls or his emails. When you do not return the messages, he'll get the picture and drop off.
Just block his email and IM access to you and don't take his calls. It's not that hard to cut someone off IF YOU REALLY WANT TO.





He's just miserable and using you to give him some kind of sick hope instead of reaching down, grabbing his balls and getting up his courage to deal with his own misery.





Stop communicating with him and deal with your own unhappiness.