Does anyone know a way to go about changing your life?

I have been unhappy for a while now and I am looking for some ideas about how to change my life. I am pretty self-conscious, don't like dealing with large crowds of people, and lack the confidence I need to truly take a risk and move on with my life. Does anyone have any ideas about what I could do to start fresh and build a happier, more confident me? A person once told me that a person can only change when he/she is ready to...well, I AM ready to change! I just need some help figuring out what to do from here. Thanks for any advice given...Does anyone know a way to go about changing your life?
the best advice i can give to you is what i'm doing....changing around some of the issues....





for example, i am completely dissatisfied with what i'm doing right now, work wise. So, i've decided to go back to school in hopes of obtaining a paralegal certification so that i can find myself a job where i can put my brain to use. Here's to hoping i pass the tests along the way so i can get the certification.





You can change anything around, but you have to have the will power.Does anyone know a way to go about changing your life?
Hi Kyle,





This depends on what you want to do! One way to go about changing your life is dealing with the things that you are afraid of doing. That will make you happier, even though it may make you to take a step out of your comfort zone.





Work on your confidence and if you don't like large crowds of people, take small steps to working on your social skills. Perhaps just being out in public where there is a lot of people or just saying hi, or smiling, or giving compliments to people when you have the chance.





Nobody can figure out what it is that you want; you must find that out for yourself whether it is more friendship, more prosperity, more love, or just an overall improved you. If you are self-conscious, deal with your self-consciousness! You have a positive attitude and now it's time to put it to the test.





Good luck,





Tristan
Go out and start talking to people... show off the things you can do... and demostrate.
I'm sorry you have been unhappy--but give you lots of kudos for wanting to make a change and become happier. It is a big step--and definitely worth it.


You have to be your own #1 priority in this life. You need to treat yourself like you would treat a fvery best friend. You deserve just as much respect and love as they do.


Okay--not knowing your age or living situatiomn/work situation it is a little hard to give ideas on how to proceed.


How to become more confident and increase self esteem is where to start. personally I do alot of reading on positive self-affirmations. There are web sites that give a daily affirmation to help with self esteem too.


You need to realize that there is only one 'you' in this world--no one else is exactly like you--and this makes you unique and very special.


You have talents that others do not have, whether you realize it right now , or not!


You have alot to offer to this world---your opinion counts--and so do your feelings!


try to do something for yourself everyday--just for you--- you deserve good things--you deserve to be happy!


I don't do well in large crowds either--it is a fairly common thing.


Good luck.