What is the best advice you can offer to your child after they have been dumped by the love of their life?

o.k. This may sound strange. My mom and dad love the lady whom my brother is dating. I love her too. She's beautiful, classy, educated, financially independent. you name it, she got it all. My brother on the other hand, is a very good man, but he is kind of broke and he has a little child. The girl who accepted him for whom he is. But the ONLY problem is that she has to leave him because her family doesn't want her to marry such a man. (My brother has a very hot temper, I guess that is what really discourage the girl)


We do not blame her one bit. My parents want to comfort my brother but we do not know how.


how's about this ';If she left you, she's not the one for you, you can do better.';


or


';She's an extraordinary lady, just cherish the time you had with her, and move on with your life. Don't let anything or anybody bring you down.';


or


';Just move on, you can find better.';


which one doesn't sound bitter or angry, and lift his spirit. ThanksWhat is the best advice you can offer to your child after they have been dumped by the love of their life?
Surely it would be better to say '; now your temper has lost you the love of your life you had better get it sorted';!!What is the best advice you can offer to your child after they have been dumped by the love of their life?
Don't try to belittle his pain in any way. Just ask him how he's doing and if there's anything you can do to help, or do something together. Nothing you say is going to make him feel better. The best thing is to be there, and know that he is really hurting, but every day it will get a little easier for him. It might take a really long time.
If these are the only options, the second one sounds pretty good, but being his family, it may be up to you to point out to him what happened in the relationship so that he doesn't repeat his mistakes and end up a lonely and bitter old man like that Golgani guy from the last question.
How about ';Learn to control your temper and perhaps people will look past the other things';. He has to learn to control his temper or his relationships are doomed. Perhaps you can suggest he take some anger management classes. Good luck.
Ya live and ya learn. Its gonna be hard but some one out there will be just as wonderful. Learn and remember what you had and look for the good in the next relationship.






He/she's is not, and was never, the ';love of your life.';
I think all three are useful and may be needed as his heart slowly but surely heals.
It's not the end.
tell him to pray

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