How to move on with your life after the end of a long term relationship.?

I have been in a relationship for almost 4 years now. The past 14 months we have been on and off again. Now it is time to cut out the crap and move on. How do you truly move on, especially when I have no friends and not a whole lot of money to go out?How to move on with your life after the end of a long term relationship.?
push yourself and stay busy, do volunteer work, attend free events\concerts, etc.How to move on with your life after the end of a long term relationship.?
get a pet to occupy your time. adopt a dog from a local shelter and take care of it and just have it as a friend to be there for you. it sounds crazy but it isn't. it'll take your mind off of him/her. learn to play an instrument. do something for you! whoever you were going out with probably didn't deserve you since they put you through all of this stuff. you can only move on when you truly want to
Well first off, just get some friends and stop looking for a man. Too many women are looking for a man to ';save them from themselves';. You don't need a man to be happy. That's probably why your dead relationship drug out so long. Just don't be in too big a hurry to jump into another mistake.
Try to forget about him, and start a new dating life. Move on with your love life I'm sure you can find someone who loves you just as much as he did. If it's real it'll last for life. You shouldn't set your standards too high or too low, just enough to know what you want and believe your going to get it.
The best way to move on is getting rid of everything you can that will remind you of that person. Its human nature to focus on the bad and sad things in life. When you see those things you will probably remember the happy times and get depressed. Depression leads to low self-esteem which, in turn, leads to turnings other people off.





Every time you feel yourself starting to think about the past you just have to tell yourself to snap out of it and move on. The number one way of moving on is completely removing everything about that relationship from your life.
I had a couple of those relationships. For me, the burden was lifted when the break was made. If you're not in a rush to get into another relationship, then let life come to you.