Monday, August 16, 2010

How to move on from someone you know was the love of your life???

pliz!!!tell me...i'm working so hard so i can move away cause it will hurt me to see this person with someone else...and why in hell are in the group of people that can get over someone easy and just star dating someone else..NO!! i have to be in that group that is goint to take us years to get over that person!!!LIFE SUCKS COMETIMES!!!How to move on from someone you know was the love of your life???
That's the side effects of loving the wrong person. Or should I say the person who wasn't for you. It hurts....that's a feeling associated with love that is as old as time...it's gonna happen at least once in your life. You have to let him/her go. Find other places to go hang out and meet new people. Keep your time occupied...that is a must for the first month or two. Don't listen to the ';gossip column'; of friends %26amp; associates who are trying to keep you up to date on the latest news: who he/she was with and who he/she was SUPPOSED to be with, etc. You have to start fresh and anew. Go meet some people....you'll find someone who can fix that heartache. Always be safe in whatever you do.How to move on from someone you know was the love of your life???
Life does suck sometimes, I totally agree. Having been in a very similar situation, it isn't easy to move on. Forget your friends and what other people say, only you know in your heart what is best for you. That won't happen overnight, it will take time. Don't think about your EX with someone else, don't think and/or speculate because you don't really know, it will only make things tougher. Remember the good times and why it ended. Only move on when you are ready. You don't have to start ';dating'; again right away, just start meeting new people and making new friends. In time the feelings will get easier to deal with and if that person was the love of your life and you believe that it was meant to be, don't wait for that to happen or you'll miss out on many wonderful things life has to offer. Know that it's happened to many people and you're not the only one who's ever gone through this. It isn't easy but it always has to get worse before it gets better. You'll be fine.
Most people don't get over it when they start dating someone else; they bring loads of baggage and issues and expect the new person to solve their problems... and then they move on to the next and the next and the next and end up bitter and say things like ';all men are dogs'; because they never worked out their own problems.


Yeah, life does suck sometimes.... but most of the time it's pretty good, so hang on. You move on by getting new hobbies and friends and turning your attention to what you enjoy doing, rather than hanging out with the same people.
its hard to get over a loved one but the best thing for you and him both is to find some one else and just get over it. it is going to be very hard to see one another with another person but it wasnt ment to be.
If you feel this was the love of your life, then you should go and talk out what ever is bothering you and made you break up in the first place. LOVE is something that is once in a life time and if you feel you found it then don't let it go.But if he/she left you then maybe they are not the right one for you.If it was so easy to get over you then they are definitely not the right one for YOU. Relax and enjoy single life and when you least expect it love will come your way. GOOD LUCK
I feel your pain cause I am o the same Boat.





I can't stop crying.





But one thing I can tell you, even though it hurts SO BAD,


Life does get better try and focus on you for a change


and try keeping busy. Once in a while you will think of him again


but try to keep busy and most of al do this for you,


You will find someone else. It might be a while but trust me it will happen.





Good Luck

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