Tuesday, August 10, 2010

How do you move on? When there is nothing but pain in your life, how do you move on?

So much crap is piling up in my life that I don't even know what to do with myself. Every week brings some new catastrophe that further pushes my downward spiral. Depression here, abuse there, a family death...how the hell do you move on with your life when all this keeps happening?!How do you move on? When there is nothing but pain in your life, how do you move on?
be strong!





don't give up hope!!





things will get better!!!How do you move on? When there is nothing but pain in your life, how do you move on?
you are still alive, healthy, and you gotta have faith that it WILL be better...there are people who have it alot worse, so keep your head up and count your blessings!!!!
you start dating again when you feel like that
That is when u need someone that knows everything u are going thru, He promised not to bring across our paths trials and problems we cannot bear, so for you to have this problems, it means He will give you the Grace to bear them. His name is JESUS. Call on Him and He will Answer.


All the best.
I have been in much of the same situation you have. A family death, well I have been there and I will say that you may never get over it, but do know that you must go through the stages of grieving and acceptance. That person is in a better place without pain or suffering, have peace in knowing that. Abuse is never a good thing whether it is emotional or physical. Find the root of that abuse and try to confront it. I say find something that you really enjoy doing and focus on that first. Try to surround yourself with positive friendship. Strengthen yourself emotionally by finding a good book to read. Go for a walk to try to clear your head. Each situation you have been through should be dealt with differently. I really hope this helps!
Things will get better. I was in your shoes not that long ago. Divorce, loss of my dad, started a new job and was broke and almost homeless. I never lost faith in myself, it was hard. You have to find the one thing that makes you happy or at least forget about your problems. It can be anything: Hanging out with friends, painting, whatever. Stay strong.
life can be so hard sometimes. You wonder why you go on. Then one day when you think you can take no more heartache, something will happen that will put a smile on your face and you realize that had you not been here you would have missed this great moment. one of the things that keeps us going is faith! I am not one of those people who preach and what have you, but i do believe you have to believe in something in order to go on, my life has been filled with more despair then i care to mention and my favorite saying is ';you never no what tomorrow will bring'; and it is true, we keep going on , because life a is gift! even with all the despair, life lets us feel every emotion, and face it, we all have to feel happy and sad sometimes, i guess it makes you appreciate the little things in life that keeps us going.
That's when you turn to God. I know that sounds cheesy, but it really helped me out. Just give your problems to God, and trust that He will help you out. He doesn't give you anything He thinks you can't handle.
one day at a time, sometimes life can seem so overwhelming and painful, but it does get better, there are happy days and days that are not so good, but it is the good days that make it all worth while, I believe that one's attitude has alot to do with it, positive vs negitive...life is energy, even when it seems impossible and you have the weight of the world on you, take a step back, take a deep breath and remember that it will pass and you have the ability to change it all just by making positive and well thought out decissions. and if you need help...ask for it.
maybe you need a vacation or a new start. sometimes you just have to let go of the drama and everything and look at things from a clearer perspective.
I've been through some dark times of my own, like everyone else has, you just slowly take one day at a time. Try surrounding yourself with up beat people, laughing really does help heal your heart, you'll be surprized.

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