Tuesday, August 10, 2010

How do you find the peace to move on with your life when you are still so very much in love with?

your ex-girlfriend? I know I will always love her but I need to find a way to move on with my life now. (We were even talking marriage and trying to have a child and then it just ended all of a sudden)How do you find the peace to move on with your life when you are still so very much in love with?
You may not get the permanent closure type of ';peace'; that makes you forget a love like that until you meet a love that is better and greater in every way. But in the meantime temporary peace comes with realizing that (unsure how it ended or if you broke up with her for some reason or vice versa) it did not work out, but YOU ARE WORTHY to find a person who will love you unconditionally and you can even have that family you want.





Of course, you still think of her. It's part of the grieving process of the loss of your girlfriend. It takes time, but get out and either meet new friends or just keep Busy doing stuff that helps others or is just plain fun.





If you are have understanding friends, tell them you need to get out and get over her, and they will help you. You need to give yourself a chance to just hang out a bit and just take care of yourself, (not wallow in self-pity) but just take a bit of extra care of yourself, like regularly: exercise more, get a massage or whatever you think will make you feel better.





Best wishes on your path to a Better future and woman who will appreciate that you are a good person with a lot to offer.How do you find the peace to move on with your life when you are still so very much in love with?
Its a phase of life you need to decide forgiveness and talk to her about it, or write a letter to her, read it then tear it up, brings out how you actually feel about her now that you cant be together.
From years of experience I can tell you this. Time will heal. I didn't believe it because man was it along time and 4 kids later but now I'm over him and I can move on. I guess for me I finally accepted that it wasn't going to work and I pictured him with someone that could make him happy. Not that I was any less capable but for whatever reasons we could not make it work. Learn from it and move on. Now you know what doesn't work.
Its hard but if you rush back into the dating scene to fill that empty place you now have in your life you will only set yourself up for disappointment.Relax,hangout with friends,family or take up a new hobbie.The heart takes its own time to heal no one really can tell you how long but when it finally happens you will be happy once agian.Take care of yourself.
hobbies are always a good start. And work or school whatever you do during the daytime. Going out with friends. Just give it time. When you keep yourself busy it helps. Before you know it, in the most unlikely place you will be crushing on some other girl.

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