Monday, August 16, 2010

How do you move on from the worst decision in your life?

love- love made me loose my home job car had to moe out of state and start over again because i thought i could not get over the hurt and lonliness. sounds pittyful i know. i neer thought it could happen to me and now i am starting over with nothing wishing i could go back in time and dont know how to move past the biggest mistake i have ever made in my life How do you move on from the worst decision in your life?
Well first things first, you can't go back, and wishing you could wont make things better. Things do happen for a reason, and this could be a good thing eventually.





Starting over isn't the end of the world. It happens. Tons of people start over every day, under much worse circumstances. Your house didn't burn down, without insurance. You'll be fine. Get a new job, save-up and keep pushing forward.





You obviously have enough resources that you can get a computer and Internet access. That's already a good sign.





You can't run away from hurt and loneliness. That will only make things worse. You need to keep yourself busy, but also meet people. You don't have to date, but at least meet people. Make friends. Just don't be alone.





You can't go back, so go forward instead. Many of us have been there and it's survivable, if you want to survive it. You have to want it and be driven to achieve it.





Best of luck in life and love. :-)How do you move on from the worst decision in your life?
i was in the same situation, but instead of moving out of the state, i moved out of the country... that's where i met my husband. we are now married and have a beautiful child, life is great.... it took a couple years before i could move on, but now that i have it's wonderful. Just remember everything happens for a reason. and somethings have to go bad so others can go good.
on one hand, you are somplace else, starting over. I am envious of you


for that. Back in the day, I didn't have the b^%26amp;*s to move out. I'd stay here and face the ridicule. Go to the laundramat on Tuesday night. That's the quiet time, and the best time to meet someone that might be worth meeting. After all......laundry--clean----a person with his/her dirty out in the open. Grab a bible, read a chapter from anywhere in it, and reflect on how positive things are GOING to turn out. YOU are going to make them turn out fine. Watch, and let us know



the only thing you can do is learn from it and grow.
it might be better if u said what u did so we would would know how to help by fully underestanding what u r trying to ask here
yes, learn from what you did and don't make the same mistake next time

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