You're hurt, you were shoved by dejection. Yet people mock that... Unless they no true despair they shouldn't judge it. You're going to be fine, or at least that's how it seems. You were broken, but your body will do what it does best, heal itself; itself being you. Looking at the joyous parts of life can only help, it'll treat as a placebo while your mind recovers.How do you move on with your life?
Sounds to me like you are headed for a major bout of depression. See a doctor before you get there! After my 22 year marriage ended when my ex got a woman pregnant, I went into what was diagnosed as clinical depression. I saw both a psychiatrist, who prescribed both an anti-depressant and sleeping pills for me, and I saw a psycho-therapist, who let me talk, which is what I needed to do. I was in therapy for a year and came out of it a much better person. I also went to something called Divorce Recovery Group, which I'm sure is also available in Canada as well as the USA. Search for it or a group like it. We met once a week for 2 hours for a year! Sounds like a long time, but it took that long to start putting my life back together. This was in 2005 and today I am fine, but it took a lot of time for me to get this far. If you can't resolve the distance issue the only thing left for you to do is to go on with your life. Hang tough! The old cliche is true: Time heals all hurt.
Good luck.
G Find a support group with a variety of people. The best one I know is SGI. They helped me through my loneliness and isolation to fulfillment and happines based on who I am, not on what someone thought I should like..
Go to the directory page of http://sgi.org. There is an active set of groups in Canada. Or, just go directly to International Association of Canada (SGI-Canada) SGI Canada Culture Centre 2050 Dufferin St. Toronto, Ontario, Canada M6E 3R6 Tel: 1-416-654-3211
Fax: 1-416-654-3539
They will connect you to the group nearest you.
Moving on isn't a ';thing'; it's a judgment. It's only afterward that someone decides that they've ';moved on';. My advice is to feel what you feel and not try to change the way you feel. Let it all come and if you don't try to resist it, they (feelings) will eventually lose interest and leave (like bullies). Ignoring them only pisses them off.
You will find someone else.
Remember that humans' only purpose is to reproduce.
Falling for one another is what gets us to eventually reproduce.
You are useless because you are a human and you have no significance.
if you and he were not on this Earth, it wouldn't make a difference.
Stop worrying and stop thinking you or anyone else is special enough to bring you down like this.
start with the little things first like getting up fairly early in the morning and getting washed and dressed. Then when you know your up to it, start going out with your friends and have fun. Basically just live your life and find away to get on with it.
Keep busy is the correct answer. It might be hard but at least you know there's no chance, so that might make it easier. Hang out with some people that can help you take your mind off of your loneliness. You need to be able to push those thoughts of him out of the picture.
don't let immigration interfere with your relationship, you can marry him and move there or he can marry you and move to Canada. True love can overcome, so get on that phone
When the odds are stacked against you, you either fight it or accept that maybe this is all predestined. Since you've given up the fight, take everyone else's advice, get a grip and get on with it. Time will deal with the rest.
listen to what your friends are sayin they seem to no wot their talkn about ive been in your situation i had to get over it n get on with life
Moving on with your life is not impractical, it just takes time.
Call some friends and go out to lunch once a week.
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